Category: Decodes
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Between “I’m fine” and “All good”… How are you?
How are you? Between all the tiredness, the busyness, and the “I’m fine” replies… how are you?
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Happy Holi
Wish you all a very happy and colourful Holi! May your life be as bright and colourful with moments of joy, laughter, success, growth, good health, and happiness, as the colours of Holi..
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Seven Digits, Silent Evenings
The checklist is almost on track. So why does something still feel missing?
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Reflections: Before the Next Sunrise
“We keep looking so hard in life for the “specific message,” and yet we are blinded to the fact that the message is all around us, and within us all the time. We just have to stop demanding that it be on OUR terms or conditions, and instead open ourselves…
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Reflections: Who Are We When No One Is Watching?
If you were to introduce yourself to me, without mentioning your occupation, your ethnicity, your religion, where you from, your nationality, what your hobbies are, and all those superficial markers we use in our day to day lives, how will you describe yourself to me, how will you introduce yourself…
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Reflections: The Quiet Wall
Reflections is a great mirror, to reveal what is not right. Talking about reflection, we start with the non-existent wall that looks so quiet on the outside, while roaring inside all of us.
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The Stories We Fear, The Truths We Forget
“Our lives are a blink of a firefly in the night. You’re just barely here. You have to make the most of every minute, which doesn’t mean you chase some stupid desire for your entire life. What it means is every second you have on this planet is very precious,…
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“ढाई आखर प्रेम का – ब्रज और कृष्ण की मेरी यात्रा”
मैं आप सभी को सादर नमन करती हूँ।मेरे प्रिय मित्र नवनीत ने जीवन की सच्चाइयों को लेकर बहुत सुंदर ब्लॉग्स लिखे हैं, जिनसे हमें आत्ममंथन का अवसर मिला।आज मैं भी आपके सामने आई हूँ — अपने भाव, अपने अनुभव, और अपने कान्हा से जुड़े अपने प्रेम की अनुभूति आप सबके…
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Relationships: The Missing Piece in the Puzzle of Life
Will you feel happy attaining your biggest worldly desire (Maya)? “Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.” – Albert Einstein
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Guided by a Light Greater Than Self
In the ever-changing tides of life, where joy and sorrow come and go, it is a selfless purpose that anchors us. A goal that asks nothing in return but uplifts others and ourselves along the way. When we walk toward a light greater than our own needs, the roughness of…
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Time: The Supreme and All-Powerful
समय बड़ा बलवान। समय के आगे हम तो क्या हैं, झुक जाए भगवान रे भइय्या, समय बड़ा बलवान। … (Time is strong, the mighty one, Before its power, we are none. Even gods must bend and sway, When time decides to have its way.)
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Love – The Root of Life
The root of all of our existence is LOVE. We are born into this universe and get a life through love. While we are alive, we get the love, we offer the love, and share bonds with the people we love. We are born out of love, and all we…
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Emotional Immunity and Self-Heal
What happens when you try your best to achieve something and don’t succeed? When you give your best effort in academics but still don’t score well in exams, put all your mind and efforts into your work, and still do not get the ideal appraisal, or put all your heart…
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Stress Balls and Emotional Baggage: Navigating Life’s Chaos with a Smile”
Are you causing any trouble in the life of people around you? Are you a troublemaker? How are you handling your stress ball? Let’s find out!
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Everything fine?
Is our life totally pre-determined, and destined to follow a path? Ain’t we all just mere puppets? What freedom, or the independence do we have? What is the value of our actions? Why do we have to put efforts, when every piece is pre-defined?
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Shades of Life
The post discusses the inevitability of missing out on certain aspects of life and the challenges of interdependent goals. It also addresses the impact of deadlocks and the labeling of people as “flags”. The message emphasizes self-love, the perception of opportunities in every situation, and the importance of living in…
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Can you express?
“The meaning of life is contained in every single expression of life. It is present in the infinity of forms and phenomena that exist in all of creation.” – Michael Jackson
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Depth of a Problem OR Problem of Depth?
Depth must be hidden. Where? On the surface. – Hugo von Hofmannsthal
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Balance the Im-Balance
“Balance is not something you find, it’s something you create.” – Jana Kingsford, author of UNJUGGLED
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Symphony of People
If life is music, a symphony, then all the people around us, who we meet, knowingly or unknowingly, the ones we spend time with, the ones we share our emotions with, who are they in our music?
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Lasagna of Thoughts?
Hi reader, Thank you for reaching up until here, it means a lot to have your attention from your valuable time. Before we begin, I would like to ask you if you could help me with your 100% attention before we go ahead. To do so, it’s a humble request…
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Decoding#074: Understanding Duality
“There’s a duality of a guy calling on God: ‘Where are you when I need you?’ and then, at the same time, ‘God helps those who help themselves.’ I think that contradiction does exist in all of us, those of faith and those who profess to have no faith.” -…
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Decoding#073: Understanding Peace
“ Peace cannot be kept by force. It can only be achieved by understanding.” —Albert Einstein
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Decoding#072: Understanding Cross-Paths
It was a pleasure meeting you – I hope our paths cross again. But what does crossing path means?
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Decoding#071: Understanding Self-Doubt
“Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.” William Shakespeare
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Decoding#070: Understanding Growth
The most important thing is to enjoy your life – to be happy – it’s all that matters. – Dalai Lama
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Decoding#069: Understanding Rejection
Rejection is the one constant of human experience. – Howard Jacobson
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Decoding#068: Understanding Being Easy on Ourselves
Hi reader, Time flies so fast, we are in September’2022, which means the festive (and vacation) season is not so far. I Hope, it brings all the joy and laughter we all wish for. I was out with my friend, and I was a little surprised when he asked if…
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Decoding#063: Understanding Imperfections
It’s not about finding relevance or perfection or imperfection in objects, but it’s that you can accept yourself and then go out and accept others. – Jeff Koons
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Decoding#062: Understanding Dreams
“May your dreams never come true! And you achieve that success that you have never dreamed of!” – Sadhguru
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Decoding#061: Understanding Competition
The biggest competition is myself. I am not looking to follow others or pull them down. I’m planning to test my own boundaries. – Rain
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Decoding#058: Understanding Vibes
When you feel no one cares or loves you, everyone ignoring you, and people are jealous of you, ask yourself. Am I too sexy?
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Decoding#057: Understanding Adaptability
“It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent. It is the one that is most adaptable to change.” – Charles Darwin
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Decoding#056: Understanding Care
Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care. – Theodore Roosevelt
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Decoding#055: Understanding Public vs Private Life
I was completely unprepared for the public spectacle my private life became, and didn’t like it a bit. Harrison Ford
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Decoding#054: Understanding Questions
Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’ Martin Luther King, Jr.
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Decoding#053: Understanding Mistakes
Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people. You shouldn’t DRINK POISON just because you’re THIRSTY. – Morgan Freeman
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Decoding#050: Understanding Being Single
To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. – Oscar Wilde
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Decoding#049: Understanding Evaluation
A little more kindness, a little less judgment. Looking at the world through colored glasses.
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Decoding#047: Understanding People
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts. – Bertrand Russell
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Decoding#046: Understanding Empathy and Compassion
Somebody once asked me how I define sobriety, and my response was ‘liberation from dependence.’ – LESLIE JAMISON
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Decoding#045: Understanding Communication
Watson: What happen to landline? Sherlock: Eh, I prefer to text.
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Decoding#044: Understanding Optimism vs Realism
How often have you been asked to stay positive or to stay optimistic? Probably, we hear it every other day. Optimism and Hope are very much related. However, the real world sometimes is exactly the opposite of what we hope for and be optimistic for.
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Decoding#041: Understanding Suicides
Hey reader, It’s been quite some time since I have written something. To be honest, I wanted to write, something that anyone could relate to, something that one could feel connected to, but was completely out of topics. Today morning, I asked my two amazing friends to suggest some and…
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Decoding#040: Understanding the Unprecedented Times
Hey reader, 2020 is a special year. We may have different views about it but it is special. Few of my friends want it to just get over, or if they can restart it, so they can get over it and never talk about it again. Some think of it…
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Decoding#039: Understanding Illusions
A life of illusions, lets make it better and worthy to live. #life #illusion #selfhelp #selfcare #suicide #contacts #friends #love #blogs
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Decoding#038: Understanding Dedication, Commitment and Devotion
Hey reader, In 2014, Kamryn Renfro, a 9-year-old Colorado girl decided to shave off her own hair as a sign of support for her 11-year-old friend, Delaney Clements, who lost her hair during chemotherapy she received while fighting a rare form of childhood cancer. The two girls go to different…
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Decoding#037: Understanding Actions
Hey reader, Far away in some kingdom, there existed one person. One who was very smart, very well educated, use to do every task with so perfection that he was set as an example for others, everything was working perfectly fine. But, all this recognition, praises and success, made him…
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Decoding#036: Understanding Human
Hey reader, A quarter creates havoc in the world on the directions of the Government, inventing a nuisance, a virus and exporting to the world and suffers from its own poison and later recovers but pushes the world into a black era which would be remembered always. Remembered not only…
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Decoding#033: Understanding the Power of Sharing Happiness
Hey reader, Here in India, it’s all about switching into the mode of celebrations as the most fascinating festival is around, Diwali. Festivals, or I say celebration, is all about the joy, laughter, fun, madness and most of all “Happiness“. What could be better than sharing the most precious thing…
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Decoding#032: Understanding Second Impressions
We are not helpless in the face of our first impressions. They may bubble up from the unconscious – from behind the locked door inside our brain – but just because something is outside of our awareness doesn’t mean it’s outside of control.
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Decoding#028: Understanding Intuition
“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” – Albert Einstein
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Decoding#026: Understanding Overthinking and how to keep the nerves
Hey reader, Thank you for visiting this blog and sparing some time to read it. I would here request you if you think this blog helps or make you feel some comfortable, don’t forget to share it with your closed ones, because “Sharing is Caring” Today’s blog is as special…
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Decoding#025: Understanding Feedback
Hey reader, Since a year and a half, I’ve been little proactive with recording music and writing blogs and sharing it over a global platform so that it can reach out to my friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. I’ve been recording and sharing music over SoundCloud and Blogs at WordPress. …
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Decoding#024: Understanding Problems
Hey reader, Life is beautiful, isn’t it? Full of sweet memories and spicy problems. Problems, that right, the spicy problems, is something which I am going to talk about. The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem.…
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Decoding#023: Understanding Success
Hey reader, It’s been a while since the last blog, and I hope for all the physical, mental, social, financial and emotional well being of everyone. The time has been really grateful, allowing me to take deeper insights to understand life. Though it appeared to be digital silence, the mind…
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Decoding#022: Understanding Gratitude
Hey reader, As it’s said, “All’s well that ends well!” , so is true about this year. The year must have been a bit tough for a few people while amazing for others. Few of us must have lost our closed ones and others might have got new people in…
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Decoding#021: Understanding Journeys
Hey reader, Journeys aren’t just a matter of source and destinations, they are more about the routes and those passages and stoppages across the routes wherein you make memories. It’s about those de-routes and unexpected good-bad surprises during a voyage which gets etched in your memories forever. “Life is a…
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Decoding#020: Understanding Leadership
Hey reader, This journey of understanding and decoding life has been more beautiful and exciting than I have ever thought. It has been so amazing that my very good friend has also joined me and will be helping me in decoding this beautiful life more precisely. So, here I welcome,…
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Decoding#019: Understanding Connections
Hey Reader, This blog is gonna be from one of my favourite topics. Before we talk about it, I would like you to listen to this beautiful song from Armin van Buuren: “Everyone’s connected but no one is connecting The human in me is long and missing Tell me, have…
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Decoding#018: Understanding Feelings
Hey Reader, This blog is inspired by a video (link is at the bottom). So if you like this read, do check out the video (very motivating). My very great colleague in the office, one day told us a story about his friend’s father, who was Ex-Squadron Leader. Sometime back…
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Decoding#017: Understanding ME before WE
Hey reader, If you have read the Blog 4, you would remember I talked about the dual minds. Before writing about this topic, I was in duality as well, whether it should be WE before ME or ME before WE. A few of you already knew about what I was…
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Decoding#016 : Understanding Hardships
Hey reader, Before I say anything else, here’s something for you: “Girte hai shahsawar hi maidaan-e-jung me, wo tifl kya girenge jo ghutno ke bal chale” The translation says that those are the brave-hearted cavalryman (warrior on horseback) who fall in the battlefield, not the cowards (tifl) who fear and walk…
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Decoding#015 : Understanding the Letting Go
Hey reader, It’s 22nd of July, and we are in that season in which we just get irritated, the monsoon. We love it so much when it rains beautifully, and hate it when it goes humid after rain with innumerable problems like water logging, traffic jams, etc. The only solution…
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Decoding#014 : Understanding Why’s
Hey reader, It’s 1st of July, when the weather is pretty as well as ugly. Pretty when it rains, or there’s a blanket of clouds over your head with a cool breeze playing with your hair, and becomes ugly when it keeps raining, with traffic jams and overcrowded metros. Funny…
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Decoding#013 : Understanding Father
Hey reader, Love you dad! – NS It’s 16th of June, and it’s a day to go for Father’s Day. Father – we all know how important is this word in our life. The days can be dark, the nights can be scary, but one person beside you will never…
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Decoding#012 : Understanding Uncertainties
Dear reader, It’s almost around 3rd of June, and this blog is very uncertain as I am starting it just in the middle of sleep. There are some things in life which are very uncertain and yet so very important. So, is this blog and this topic, Uncertainties. “Life to…
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Decoding#011 : Understanding Principles
Hey reader, It’s 18th of May, and now I’m sure that it’s 18th only and not 17th, Advisor. The days can be tough, overloaded with work, tiring, hard, high on nerves, yet comforting, satisfying and ending with a sense of relief. This could be only achieved if you have your…
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Decoding#010 : Understanding Millennials
Hey reader, What a bright, hot and sunny day of 6th of May, hopefully we all get some refreshing breezers out this summer. You already know with the subject of the blog what I am going to talk about, Millennials. For those who doubt what and who are Millennials, these…
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Decoding#009 : Understanding Failures
Hey reader, It’s 19th of April, and before anything else, thanks everyone for being connected, following blog, commenting their views, making the communication possible in duplex manner. So, a big thanks to every one, your responses are very important and keep them flowing in. I always say, try something new.…
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Decoding#008 : Understanding Friendships
Hey reader, It’s 6th of April, and with the freshness in the mind and petrichor in the weather, I am back with another interesting topic. I think many of you will be new, like me, to this petrichor. But we all know it. It is the earthy scent produced when…
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Decoding#007 : Understanding Belief
Hey reader, It’s 19th of March, and before I go ahead, I want you to do something. You just have to remember one moment where you helped someone who was all stranger to you. You never met them earlier nor possibly be going to meet them again in future. It…
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Decoding#006 : Understanding Attachments
Hey reader, It’s 14th of March, and sometimes the time seems to run like sand in the fist, harder you try to hold, faster it slides down. But whatever happens, Life’s always beautiful. No matter how many hardships come, but there will always be some moments, you will smile, sometimes…
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Decoding#005 : Understanding Virtual World and its Loneliness
Hey reader, It’s 3rd of March, just after the midnight, and the beauty of this night is the thoughts and an assurance that this one will get read may be right now by the one I call the amazing person. Though, this one is not for only that one but…
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Decoding#004 : Understanding Dual Minds and the Power of ME
Hey reader, It’s 16th of February, and the sun is out shining brighter day by day. But it might bluff you like it’s early summer and sooner you get rid of cardigans and jumpers, the winter winds will make you chill and surprise you with sour throats. Some people liked…
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Decoding#003 : Understanding Happiness Part 2
Hey reader, It’s 4th of February, and the weather is absolute perfect, neither too hot nor too cold, cool breezes in the bright sunny day just makes the perfect balance. “Balance”, something which is important everywhere, be it the weather or spices in food or in daily life. Work hard…
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Decoding#002 : Understanding Happiness Part 1
Hey reader, It’s 28th of January, and still leaving conversations incomplete with the same person. But before I talk about the person, let me thank to the people who read my previous blog, Thank you so much for reading, commenting and reaching out to me personally. You all are amazing,…
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Decoding#001 : Understanding Beginnings
Hey reader, It’s 24th of January, waking up to a beautiful day and looking at the incomplete conversation left last night with a wonderful person, well thats enough for my mind to kickstart the day and probably where I will finally shutter-up this place. “The journey of a thousand miles…

