Hi reader,

Suppose you get a call from a friend, and you missed to answer the ring. Will you now call back or text? The answers can be like, it depends who called, or what time he/she called, or what you are doing when they called, or where you were when they called, but you would always agree with the fact that it depends mostly on who called, the person.

Alright, now another one… why do we feel comfortable and more friendly with a few people more than the other? A simple question, right? Simply because thoughts are aligned, feel respected, understood, listened to, and with all these a connection is present which helps in easy communication. The crux, the two people vibe with each other. 

Interestingly, it is not just related to near-age people but also between elders and youngers, infants and the elders, and not just the humans, but also with the other creatures, say our pets. Dogs, birds, cats, they all respond to the vibes we carry. So, when we say, that don’t know why, but I just can’t spend time with this or that person, or not sure why they don’t like to go out with me or spends time with me, or don’t know why that kid just starts cranking up with me but giggles with you, we know what actually is missing, the vibe!

Vibe

The mood or atmosphere that a particular person, thing or place produces and that people respond or react to.

Life is never always smooth as butter or rough as toast. It is always a journey from the good and bad phases. And yes, it does affects our everything. At a certain point in life, we may feel confident, happy, successful, lovely, and sexy, but maybe in another phase, we may feel sad, disappointed, alone, pity, unhealthy, stressed, and complete jerk! Not sure if you know or believe in that how we feel and how we think are both related, and can balance out each other. 

Suppose, you are on your first solo trip, and you hiked a mountain and standing on top of the summit, how do you feel? And what will you be thinking? How would you feel on top of a summit thinking of a not-so-good week at work, or how would you feel on top of a summit thinking about your ex? How do you feel on top of a summit thinking about your disturbed financials? How would you feel on top of a summit thinking about the freshness in nature while looking at the blue sky? How would you feel thinking about the milestone you achieved and how far can you mark your next milestone? Do you agree that all the feelings will be different? This is how our thoughts affect our emotions and feelings. 

It is not always the other person or a situation that makes us feel happy or sad, but how we think about it! We may have everything in life, but being so lost in our daily struggles, we often miss out on what we have achieved all these years. We don’t think about what we have with us right now, but we keep thinking about what we need right now in our life. And this very difference just changes our focus from what may have made us feel better to what will make us feel bad.

Thinking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit. Talk about your joys.

Once, we start controlling our thoughts, shifting them from the problems in life to the little success achieved every day (like getting up early or making breakfast), the solutions to our problems will also start coming to us. I can understand that changing a habit is tough, old habits die hard, but if one small change in life can make or break the rest of the course of life, then what is stopping you? Your worth is not measured in likes, comments, notes, or followers; but in your ability to love, keep comments to yourself, take notes, and lead. If you have good thoughts, they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.

When you feel no one cares or loves you, everyone ignoring you, and people are jealous of you, ask yourself. Am I too sexy?

Well, this is all about your vibe, but what about others? Well, first you shouldn’t be really caring about it, because few things, not sure how, but they are so well aligned in nature, that we really don’t need to do anything about it and it just works. Like vibes, we just basically get aligned and matched with the people who carry similar vibes to ours. And not just same vibes, if you carry that positive and good vibe, it also attracts people as we all, want to be happy and successful, and every time we feel and experience that vibe with someone, we tend to spend time with them, we are just attracted towards that vibe!

Bring in good vibes to acquire a positive state and discover the secret of living a content life. Vibes change your emotions, mood, and state of existence. Now, it’s your choice to select the vibes that reverberate within you and motivate you to go forth and foster a good life.

Keeping good vibes is one thing, but how you respond to the negativity around or not-so-great vibes is another. We often experience, how great we used to feel with someone, but now, even spending 2 minutes on a call with them is so horrible experience. Or maybe it’s just not the same thing now, and it is all-natural. Maybe their thoughts are changed, or you transformed into a better version of yourself. How to deal with it? Depends on how strong good vibes you possess. If you believe it is strong enough to fight some bits of negativity, then do spend that time. But, if you yourself are struggling with your own vibes and trying for the better, avoid additional challenges, as they may pull you back, or create a fuss between the two with improper communication and lack of understanding. Sometimes a break is important to make a connection! 

To our future generations, vibes matter a lot. Vibes depends on how you think, feel, and the environment you create around yourself. To be successful is important, but to be happy and content with life is also important, and for that vibes matter!

Cheers!
– Navneet