It’s often said that to live your everyday like it’s last day. This statement itself justifies the need to understand the uncertainties. We never know what the very next moment is going to bring! It can be a call from your favourite celebrity, or someone you know just got into an accident, someone just going to become the parent or may be someone you know got choked. It can be anything.

Point is not to stop or control these incidents, because it’s impossible to control the future events and allow only good ones to happen. Both the good as well as bad will happen and that’s how the balance I talk about will be maintained. Some people might say that we should try to be prepared for anything. It’s good to be prepared but still the things which are destined to happen, the events that are bound to happen, will happen.

So what should we do? Nothing. Yes, there is nothing special that we can do to avoid it. But, there is something that we should do and that will make a difference. Trust me, it’s very simple rule.

The rule is, don’t hide or keep – just say it. Yeah I know, you all have heard this and it’s nothing new and in fact many of you agree with it, but how many of you follow it? How many times you have tell your mother that you appreciate her efforts all day along? How many times have you told your father that he is your superhero? How many times you have said to your friend that yes – you care for him/her? How many times have you said to that person whom you like about your feelings? How many times have you said the person from whom you get inspired that yes – you make me inspire? These questions are endless! These are the ones you need to ask yourself.

Somethings are better being said than kept. You never know how they might help the others in their life problems. You never know how relaxing they would feel in a tense situation that yes someone does care for them. You never know how great one would feel to get to know about your feelings. You never know how motivated or happy one could be knowing that they are inspiring.

You might be in some bad mood or just pissed off with your work/routine. And in that mood, you might avoid to talk to people. Sometimes nicely and sometimes rudely. Things take a moment only to change. Just a change of topic can transform the mood or just a little bitterness in the food can spoil your mood. Uncertain. But then, comes the good and appreciative things, which you might have said in past. Those words will act like the saviour to your relation and bonding. It not only keeps it strong but also makes the other person remember that he might have said it rudely but he doesn’t mean that, in fact they might feel the urgency to help you finding you in some trouble with your rude words.

So, its just about the simple rule. Don’t keep it – say it. Just try it out for a week and see the change in the people around you. Without even knowing, you will be spreading the happiness and as the Karma says “What goes around – comes around” it will come back to you, and may be amplified. You can start from your home as charity begins at home.