Duality is everywhere, in every man and in every woman, and it’s not a story but just a complexity that we make by ourself. So how many times have you been confused while ordering between a pasta or a pizza (and end up ordering a burger like me)? You see the duality? How many times you been confused between colours while buying out a cloth? Duality is not in the colours or dishes but it’s just a yes or a no! Believe me, over 99% of questions we have in our mind just need either a yes or a no and nothing in between. But we end up in the middle with duality of either a yes or a no. You might have thought why 99% and not 100%, well I’m also one of you and I also have duality! So 1% is either a yes or no.

Let me take my example, I experienced this in one of the things recently. I wanted to meet the amazing person and was stuck in a yes or a no for asking. Finally, I decided and asked. Now the answer keep guessing while few of you know what happened. But by choosing a yes or a no, one thing happened for sure that the recursive questions disappeared. So just like to clear up space from your phones, you clear the cache and junk, just take the call whether a yes or a no and clear up the clutter from your mind.

Duality is not for outside world, but it’s deep inside for us as well. You act to the outside world how good, strong, happy and satisfied you are with your life but are you? Now only a yes or a no, it’s a question from you and for you! No duality here please!

I have seen many people depending upon others for their own happiness, satisfaction, fulfilment or success. As I said in my previous posts, everything depends on me. There’s no one who can make you happy unless you don’t want to and you command your brain to send such signals to the body that you feel happy. There might be some situations where you have felt like when you shared some specific scenarios with someone and their reaction making you feel comfortable, but let me tell you, it’s not about that person. It’s all about our own mind.

When we share anything like any moment in life or talk about some memories or incidents with someone, we are waiting for their reaction. And we are not concerned about their reaction, yes we’re not. In fact, we are just waiting for that person to react the way we want them to. If they do that same, we feel yes this is the one who understands me or to whom I can turn to otherwise we just keep on explaining them ourself and end up saying “forget it!” We want someone to hit the truth that we have deep inside from outside. We want them to speak what we already know somewhere in our mind.

So my question to you is, why to depend on someone to say something we already know. I know what 2+2 is, then why should I wait for someone to tell me Hey Navneet! It’s 4 that you are looking for!

The reason I said about this is, many of us have someone in our life whether in the form of Bf/Gf, human-diary, close-cousin or sibling, but some, despite having these people, they just fail to get the answers from outside. The answers that you and me already have inside us. It’s good to have someone by your side, as by talking you may clear up your thoughts, but for getting an answer, you don’t need to depend upon them. It’s already there! You don’t need to feel lonely or lost or upset about life. We all go through these phases. But recognise the POWER OF YOU!  i.e. POWER OF ME. 

I was very amazed to know about few people who actually did the tasks. Thank you so much and you already know how great it feels when we perform actions rather than thinking to act. It will be great if you share your experiences in the comments.

As always, here’s the task, talk to yourself, ask yourself what’s bothering you most? What is it that arises questions recursively in your mind? You can share with someone you like to, but first figure out its most logical answer by yourself. You can also compare the same when someone else tells you the same answer. Compare your emotions.

Another thing I’m surprised with, people took incomplete conversations concept so seriously. It feels great people following your thing. Just kidding!

Has anyone received a letter? A personal letter? Anyone who has experienced it? If yes, reach out to me though mails (I have a good response time in mails :smile: ) or if you feel comfortable, you can share below as well as Anonymous. I received one recently and let me tell you how was it..